Tricks to Ease First Day Fears at School

Almost 80% of kids would have a fear on the first day of the school. There could be several reasons. Here  we have discussed some of those issues and how to prepare our kids to face those smartly.

• It is obvious that, after a long vacation, kids would not want to be away from home for so long. While dropping them to school, If we try to explain them, “I will be back after 2 hours” or “after 3 hours” they would not understand. Instead explain them “you can see me just when you finish your music class”. (If the teacher has told music class is the end of day activity). 
• He might be scared to go all by himself by school bus or any school cab. If this is the case, then take him on a quick public bus trip. Explain him how he should find his seat and how he should get down at he stop taking help from the school guide. Discuss with the child how the school bus will be different from the public bus. 

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• He might be scared of the teacher and the classroom rules. Explain him teacher is there to help him learn. Remind him that teacher’s classroom rules are probably the same as the ones at home – like no interrupting when other person is talking and talk softly while talking to others. If he is scared of the teacher, then set a time to visit the classroom and meet the teacher, try introducing the child to teacher before school starts. 
• He might be scared of the big school building, thinking he might get lost. Find out if you can visit the school few days before the child’s first day. Check out some fun areas like play room or art room so that he would get excited to go to school. Walk on some common routes which the child would be using later. Go for a trial walk through the school premise and the corridor to the place familiar to him. Do a role play at home to show how to find way if he gets lost in the school. Explain him how he should introduce himself and take help from any teacher around and another student to find the classroom. Also point out that he should never go alone to any place. He should always get accompanied by his buddy. 
• He might be thinking that school is only to study and no fun at all. Ask teacher about the time table and get a good picture of how much time the child will be spending on subjects like reading, language and how much time he will spend on less structured activities like free play, drawing. Reassure your child that he will get to do all those fun things by taking her through the schedule. Frame a schedule in a positive way by saying “you will get to have long drawing classes and you will still have some time to go and play outdoor”. Also let him know he will also get to time to play after school hours like any other day. Like with his neighbors in the park, reading a story book with Mom before bed, playing a pillow game with his Dad. 
• Make school sound fun. Explain him it is only 3 hours of special time where he will get to learn new things and play with all his friends. Give your child a big hug and kisses while dropping him to school. Reassure him telling, even if you leave him now, you will come back to pick him up. Just pack the little one his favorite comfort food to lunch box.

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Best Summer Activities For Kids Especially For Preschoolers

If you are thinking of summer activities, then while selecting the right summer activity, talk to your child about what he loves to do and discuss the available options. The activities should be such that it should balance fun and learning. Learning should be covert. If opting for summer camp or workshops, then consider cost and proximity. Look for workshop conducted by professional where the batches are small and environment is safe.

With the kids at home through out the day, we need to turn our every day activities into creative projects, that both entertain and keep kids busy.

Cooking and Serving :

The idea is to mess around and have some fun. And if your kids pick up something in the process, even better. Get your kids involved in preparing some simple dishes like salads or cookies or rolling chapathis.  Children love to squish and squelch things with their hands. So whether you need to do it to mixing tomato pieces for a salad or potatoes, to make a curry. Get your child involved. This way he would feel happy, he was part the of the job. Also praise your child, by telling a friend or relative in detail about the job he did, in front of him. This makes a lot of difference.

Summer Activities

Hit the beach or at least pool side:

Kids love water, especially beach, be it winter or summer. And beach is one place, where your kids would get all your undivided  attention. No TV, No phones and No laptop. J.  There are lot of activities you could do there. Fly a kite, Pick up shells, Go for a looooong walk , Make sand castle, Play a ball game. These are the days our kids would remember, long after holidays are over.

Summer Reading :

Expose your preschooler to a variety of reading material. Short stories, newspaper, comic books, novels. Let him guide you in what he interested to read. For example, if she loves animails, then give him some short moral story books, like panchatantra. Then discuss the characters in the story, moral of the story etc.

An Arts and Craft Idea:

Child can make a cup which says “Yes I can”. Give your child few old magazines. And ask him to cut out small images of things(the size should be such that, atleast 4 pictures should fit in a cup),  which he can do. Now Give your child a clean cup and ask him to stick those image on to it. Now the self – confidence booster cup ready, which will remind him of his abilities.

Few more interesting summer activities can be found at Summer Activities.

  

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Shyness In Children, Toddlers And Adolescence

Shyness is often more of an issue for parents than it is for children. Many parents feel they have somehow failed because their children aren’t sparkling like all other kids.  For some toddlers, shyness can be a big hurdle to overcome. They hide behind their parents legs when some, familiar or unfamiliar person approaches them. And there is nothing wrong with that.

It is very important to first understand that such kind of shyness is not a problem in itself. It is rather a reflection of something else that is going on in the child’s mid. Here are few of them.

Fear of strangers: Or what we call stranger anxiety. Some children are simply too scared of unfamiliar people. Such children find it extremely difficult to interact with those who are either complete stranger or occasional visitors.

Analysis of situation: ‘Look before you leap’ is the motto of some children. Children, who are very sensitive to their own and to other’s feelings, generally find it difficult to be impulsive and prefer to look at things for a distance, analyze the details and then cautiously inch forward. Unfortunately, by the time they feel comfortable to go ahead, the push from people fades. Then they have no choice but to stay back.

Fear of uncertainty: Some children like to be sure what is happening next. They prefer a routine over an unstructured day.  They throw fewer tantrums if they are told things that are told things that going to happen and when they meet someone, they are fine. But when they meet with some one unexpectedly, they retreat because they are not metal prepared for that meeting. 

Some children are just not wired to be social butterflies. If this is the case in our child, then we need to accept a little bit of shyness in our kid. Some shyness here and there could be coming from small influence of each of the reason mentioned above. That is something not to be worried about. Most shyness in toddler years is developmental. And its often the case that the shyness will gradually lessen as the child grows, gains experience and builds confidence. Even then here are some ways to get the young one out of shyness…. 

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Parenting Tips for Parents of Preschoolers

At this age preschoolers understand them selves better. This is the age, what ever we teach they will remember though out their life. The right time to teach any good habits, hobbies, good behavior which we our family believes in. Here are some parenting ideas for 3 year olds and above.

Be a Role model: Kids learn from the surroundings. Kids of age around 3, where most of the time they spend at home, learn most of the things from parents. So as a parent, we need to look at how we talk to our kids. Threats and bribes teach them fear and greed. Nagging, lecturing, or yelling will teach the child its ok to yell when they want to. And for sure, the child will not listen whenever we shout. We need to be calm in every situation, exactly the same way how we expect our child to be. We need to show all the good manners in our day to day activities, then only they will learn.

Why How and What (Curiosity): At this age preschooler’s loved words are “Why”,”How” and ”What”.  The answers to these questions need to be short, sweet and direct. In school they would obviously learn the science behind it later. Now the answers should be such that, they should get more curious and satisfied with the answers.

Raise a kid with a big Heart : Raising a grateful kid in this greedy world is not simple. We will never be able to give our kids every little thing they want, but we can teach them to appreciate what they have. We can teach them how to share, how to care for others and how to be honest.

A Preschooler

Keeping them Active and Creative:  In this competitive world every child need to be very active and alert at every moment. W should include plenty of active time in each and every day. Television is not an active time so keep it to a minimum. Get involved in creative play with kids. If some thing is not coming the way expected, it could lead to mini-meltdowns, which could derail the process. Make sure to join in any creative projects, and show your child your own effort. We should show there are lots of different ways to achieve our goal.

Getting along with the friends and Outdoor Activities :  If a preschooler is outside running jumping and playing on a daily basis, then when he is nine and ten and older, he will feel the need to go out and move.  And physical activity is must to stay fit and healthy. Activities for young preschooler can be like Pedaling a tricycle, Kicking or Catching the soft ball. Just play and run around with friends.

Food habits: We should develop good eating habits in kids from beginning. As we all know healthy family is a happy family. Try to use more of fresh leafy vegetables, fruits, milk and milk products which increase natural immunity in the body to fight against diseases.

Reading as a Hobby : Books make great companions of a man. Reading books is a very good hobby a person can have. Preschoolers learn skills like recognizing numbers and letters, rhyming and wordplay when parents spend time reading to their kids. That way we could build interest in books in our kids.

Listen, Share and Learn: The key features to be developed in kids to be a successful human being in future. We should make them understand how much pleasure we get from sharing with others what we have. Listening to other’s words, caring for others feelings are very important characters one should have.

Sleep zzzzzzzz: Kids need to get adequate amount of sleep every day to be healthy and active. Sleep could lead to cranky behavior. They have fun and would enjoy more, function better and be cooperative with the correct amount of sleep.

Stick to the rule and routine with a bit of freedom: Clear and consistent rules need to be followed in the family. Every one hates conflicts, but if we as parents don’t stick to the rules and consequences we set up, our kids are not likely to either. It looks sad when we refuse to buy our kid another doll when she is asking for it. Instead of firmly standing, we could just console the child saying “I understand your feelings and that u really want that doll, you will be very disappointed if you don’t get that doll, but think about how many dolls already you have at home and whether its already enough” its absolutely fine to stick to our rules and don’t buy her that doll, but the way we express it makes the difference. By showing her empathy and understanding, she is likely to feel better even though she did not get what she wanted, some times a touch of empathy and understanding is all that preschoolers need. 

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Short And Sweet Sanskrit Originated Modern Indian Hindu Baby Boy Names And Baby Girl Names Starting With R

Today every parent wishes to give his/her child a unique name, a name which is very different and very rare. A child with an uncommon name feels good that he/she has a unique but pleasant to hear name. Here is an exclusive rare collection of traditional mythological Hindu baby names and their meaning. Most of these boy baby names and girl baby names are derived from beautiful Sanskrit words. This list for exotic Indian names for babies has a blend of both Modern and traditional touch.

Top Indian Hindu Baby Girl Names Starting With R

Rachita	Created
Rachna	Creation, Construction, Arrangement
Rajul	Brilliant
Rakshita	Protected
Ramitha	Pleasing
Ranya	Pleasant, Delectable
Reha	Star
Richa	Hymn, The Writing Of The Vedas, Verses Of Sanskrit
Riddhi	Fortunate
Rusham	Peaceful

Top Indian Hindu Baby Boy Names Starting With R

Radhak	Liberal Minded
Radhey	Karna
Rajak	Illuminating
Rangan	A Flower, Fun Loving
Ratash	The King
Revanth	Horse Rider
Ritajit	Conquerer Of Knowledge
Ronak	Embellishment, Celebration
Rusham	Peaceful
Rutesh	Kind Of Seasons

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Short And Sweet Sanskrit Originated Modern Indian Hindu Baby Boy Names And Baby Girl Names Starting With M

Today every parent wishes to give his/her child a unique name, a name which is very different and very rare. A child with an uncommon name feels good that he/she has a unique but pleasant to hear name. Here is an exclusive rare collection of traditional mythological Hindu baby names and their meaning. Most of these boy baby names and girl baby names are derived from beautiful Sanskrit words. This list for exotic Indian names for babies has a blend of both Modern and traditional touch.

Top Indian Hindu Baby Girl Names Starting With M

Maansa	Intention
Madhula	Sweet
Mahati	Greatness, Name Of A Raaga
Mahi	The Great, Great Earth, Heaven And Earth Conjoined
Manana	Meditation
Mayil	Full Of Grace, Like A Peacock
Mehul	Cloud, Rain
Mrudula	Soft Natured
Mudita	Glad
Muskan	Smile

Top Indian Hindu Baby Boy Names Starting With M

Maagh	Name Of A Hindu Month
Maanav	Youth
Madhuk	A Honeybee
Madhumay	Consisting Of Honey
Mahant	Great
Mahit	Honoured
Maneet	One Who Wins Heart, Honoured
Minal	A Precious Stone
Mridula	Soft, Mild
Mudit	Happy, Pleased

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